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I'm sad...
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/9/2006 9:05:05 PM message detail |
I met an awesome girl this weekend, and we seemed to get along just dandy. This is not why I am sad. She lives a little ways away, which will make seeing her a pain, and I found out from a person I trust that she's not the best person to get to know well. From my time with her this weekend, she either hid it well, or is actually trying to be better. In any case, this info about her is what made me sad. If you want to give advice, that's fine. I don't really need it, more just wanted to say something to someone. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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ZyIan Bloodstone Posted 7/9/2006 9:09:23 PM message detail |
Is murder a viable choice at this point? --- No one remembers having sex with JJ. It's just something we all assume happens. - Warlock ~Juggling Joker~ |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/9/2006 9:11:27 PM message detail |
Who am I supposed to kill to make this better? --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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Cubular Posted 7/9/2006 9:13:05 PM message detail |
Your friend, for giving you the bad news! --- Help out a needy community: www.TheSMG.tk |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/9/2006 9:21:10 PM message detail |
I can't really see that helping. I'm too tired and bleh to be angry enough to kill, and my friend was just trying to be nice. Maybe I'll just go to bed and feel better about everything in the morning. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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MacDaddy Mike Posted 7/9/2006 9:31:58 PM message detail |
What is this bad info about her? She crazy? --- The ZSB: It's not about you, or me. It's about Zii. {Board 548} SPOOKAY!™, it's MacDaddy Mike! |
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Alissa Posted 7/9/2006 9:34:55 PM message detail |
From my time with her this weekend, she either hid it well, or is actually trying to be better. You just met her. People are usually on their best behavior wen you first meet them. She could be a raging **** or a perfectly nice girl. But, like, what's the big deal if she is a raging ****? I know it kind of sucks, but at least you just met her and it's not someone you've had long relationship with. So, either listen to your friend or find out what she's like for yourself. That's really all you can do. |
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Cubular Posted 7/9/2006 9:36:06 PM message detail |
Hmmm.....I would try to get to know her a little bit more, but that's just me. Like you said, sleep won't make you feel as sad about it, so maybe that might make you feel better. --- Help out a needy community: www.TheSMG.tk |
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Mad Kowolluh Posted 7/9/2006 10:29:37 PM message detail |
Yeah, I met a girl at work too. Except I found out she's almost 19. That's a bit too old for me. I'm almost 22. I like 'em around 15 or 16. Robbing the cradle ftw! Just kidding. --- I'm not afraid to bleed, but I won't do it for you. |
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Quid Posted 7/9/2006 10:42:54 PM message detail |
"People are usually on their best behavior wen you first meet them." Does it make me a bad person if the last time I first met someone I asked her "Who the hell are you?" --- Hurray for President krosser, winner of two consecutive ZSB World Cup tournaments and the Zelda Tournament, Welcome back, President krosser |
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jukester Posted 7/9/2006 10:46:00 PM message detail |
It seems very Quiddish to me, and Quiddish is always cool. I do agree that you only will see the good sides of people when you first meet them, usually. And then when you get to know them you can find their idiosynchrasies and such that are annoying or go against what you think. Example, I met this girl at work and we clicked really well, then I drove her home one night and we were chilling in her driveway. She got her bong out and took a few hits. Not sure what I think of it just yet. Anyway, some people you will like more as you get to know them; it could go either way. jukester |
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Wacky Posted 7/9/2006 10:49:28 PM message detail |
Don't be a wuss, jukey. Toke up with her! --- It's like going into a pet store and asking for a dog, only to be confronted by the guy behind the counter, who tells you they have fish.~~Hawk Eye |
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jukester Posted 7/9/2006 10:57:03 PM message detail |
I'm going over to her house tomorrow and bringing her to a party Thursday. I'd say I'm tokin'. jukester |
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Deity42 Posted 7/10/2006 9:16:19 AM message detail |
Dude, just hang out with her. Don't take other people's words for it, find out for yourself. She might be a totally awesome person and her craziness is something you can deal with. --- I don't want to get you drunk, but, ah, that's a very fine Chardonnay you're not drinking. |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/10/2006 3:36:01 PM message detail |
Yeah, the girl (Jacquiline, although she goes by however you spell "Jacky") is supposedly a bit easy, and has been in trouble for drinking, and that probably doesn't matter to most of you, but, as some might remember, I am a Jehovah's Witness, so we're supposed to have good moral standards and stuff. Which is actually why I didn't say why she was bad in the first place. She said that we should hang out sometime, so I emailed her and let her know I'm free two weekends from now. I guess I'll have to see how that turns out. Oh, Koala, she's got a pretty cute 16 y'old sister. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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jukester Posted 7/10/2006 3:38:54 PM message detail |
Yeah the girl I've been hanging out with does pot and is smoking a pack of cigarettes every two days. Her dad's a felon, apparently, and a racist. I think you're in better shape than me. jukester |
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AdmiralViscen IV Posted 7/10/2006 3:43:49 PM message detail |
You're sad because you met a girl you have to travel to see and who is hard to get to know? If you had my life you'd kill yourself. Stop being a baby and start talking to her on her phone. --- Help Revive One of GameFAQs' Most Historic Boards: ZSB http://boards.gamefaqs.com/gfaqs/gentopic.php?board=548 {åß} |
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AdmiralViscen IV Posted 7/10/2006 3:45:54 PM message detail |
Oh wait, she's a developing slut with a drinking habit. Two fixable things, the latter of which everyone in your age group is. --- Help Revive One of GameFAQs' Most Historic Boards: ZSB http://boards.gamefaqs.com/gfaqs/gentopic.php?board=548 {åß} |
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Deity42 Posted 7/10/2006 3:58:32 PM message detail |
There's a lot of ways to define "easy," how are you doing so? Because I'd say easy means multiple one-night stands over a period of time, while some prudish friends I know might say easy means having two different steady boyfriends in one year. --- I don't want to get you drunk, but, ah, that's a very fine Chardonnay you're not drinking. |
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jukester Posted 7/10/2006 3:59:54 PM message detail |
I define easy as having sex without much resilience or question. Heh. jukester |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/10/2006 4:35:11 PM message detail |
I mean 'easy' as someone who puts out to people he/she's not dating, or early in most of his/her relationships. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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Quid Posted 7/10/2006 4:57:40 PM message detail |
"but, as some might remember, I am a Jehovah's Witness, so we're supposed to have good moral standards and stuff." If you think that's a good enough reason to consider not hanging out with her, then you shouldn't. Your beliefs would only become an even bigger problem further down the line if the drinking and fooling around thing is already one, God, it's hard not insulting the JW's beliefs, --- Hurray for President krosser, winner of two consecutive ZSB World Cup tournaments and the Zelda Tournament, Welcome back, President krosser |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/10/2006 5:09:51 PM message detail |
Yeah, I appreciate you not busting my balls about it, Quid. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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MissQuark Posted 7/10/2006 5:13:12 PM message detail |
I know what your beliefs are, And seeing it from here, I doubt that relationship can stand for more than a few months, really. She'll could probably end up harming you by making you feel bad in the long term. Somehow I doubt you only search for someone who may just want a **** buddy and go on to the next guy, not to mention girls with a drinking problem isn,t what I call good either. Considering your ways, I'd stop wasting my time on someone who insn't worth it all if I were you. Anyway, do what your heart tells you, but beware of the spines behind the roses as well. And the heck, she's not the only girl around you, no? You're a nice guy 'Nee, you deserve better than that. PS: The proper way to write it is Jacqueline btw, but it's a name no one uses since at least 50 years... What were her parents thinking?? --- We're in the last generation of people who remember a world without computers everywhere. ~ Mothey Je suis une mouette. Non, ce n'est pas ça... |
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AdmiralViscen IV Posted 7/10/2006 5:35:13 PM message detail |
Jacqueline is a great game, and Jackie is its abbreviation. Quid, I don't think he has a problem hanging out with her, just dating her. I don't see why you can't check out someone's sexual history before getting caught up in romantic commitments. --- Help Revive One of GameFAQs' Most Historic Boards: ZSB http://boards.gamefaqs.com/gfaqs/gentopic.php?board=548 {åß} |
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Deity42 Posted 7/10/2006 5:47:51 PM message detail |
The hell is wrong with Jacqueline? I know at least two girls with the name under 25 years old (one went by "Jax"). I even named my car Jacqueline. --- I don't want to get you drunk, but, ah, that's a very fine Chardonnay you're not drinking. |
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MacDaddy Mike Posted 7/10/2006 5:58:33 PM message detail |
I know one Jackie, who happens to be my eleventh grade English teacher that I got rather close with. --- The ZSB: It's not about you, or me. It's about Zii. {Board 548} SPOOKAY!™, it's MacDaddy Mike! |
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Tithenion Posted 7/10/2006 6:12:01 PM message detail |
Never heard the name. But staying on subject. Considering what you believe, I wouldn't try to get into a relationship with her. I'm a Christian so I understand you having a problem with her drinking and being "easy". If it were me, I wouldn't even give it a second thought. But, you do what you feel is right, I'm just saying what I think. --- If there weren't luck involved, I guess I'd win every one. - Phil Hellmuth Jr. |
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Quid Posted 7/10/2006 6:51:45 PM message detail |
"Quid, I don't think he has a problem hanging out with her, just dating her." All variables aside, I meant that more towards the dating than simply being friends, poor choice of words on my part, "I don't see why you can't check out someone's sexual history before getting caught up in romantic commitments." You can and should check on it, who knows what she could have picked up along the way. But taking his beliefs into consideration, if he wants to stay true to them, there'll be more issues further down the line. Just seems like a bad idea to start when there's already a problem and the road ahead only has more. A girl who fools around and smokes probably isn't gonna be too keen on a religion that forces her into a submissive role, --- Hurray for President krosser, winner of two consecutive ZSB World Cup tournaments and the Zelda Tournament, Welcome back, President krosser |
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Mad Kowolluh Posted 7/10/2006 6:54:31 PM message detail |
If you decide against this thing, kNee, send her my way. She sounds like my kinda girl. --- I'm not afraid to bleed, but I won't do it for you. |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/10/2006 7:44:17 PM message detail |
..No offense intended, but you guys are giving decent sounding advice. I expected more "screw beliefs, do what you want" kinda thing. My 'infatuation' for her is fading somewhat.. I really don't know why I was so obsessed over her last night. I'm thinking lack of sleep, plus that pathetic thing that nerds/geeks have of falling in love with any girl that gives them attention, although to a lesser degree in my case. I'm also focusing my thoughts more on another girl that would fit much better with my life. But, like I mentioned before, (I think.. my mind's all weird 'cause of tiredness), we might be hanging out in a couple weeks. Chances are, if we do do something, I'll probably get turned off 'cause of her personality or jealous by her flirting with every guy or something else bad will happen. Anyway, I appreciate the thoughts/help. I'll keep you all updated if stuff happens. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/13/2006 8:15:03 AM message detail |
We chatted yesterday. It was fun. Apparently her parents like me. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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Warlock210 Posted 7/13/2006 9:31:54 AM message detail |
I like her parents. --- "I vote Warlock for president..."~Mac "Warlock, you're my savior."~Ellimist-Tåß |
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Deity42 Posted 7/13/2006 9:32:53 AM message detail |
Okay. --- I don't want to get you drunk, but, ah, that's a very fine Chardonnay you're not drinking. |
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HandofThrawn Posted 7/14/2006 8:27:49 AM message detail |
Hmmm.... While far from a Jehovah's Witness, if I were to find out some lass I fancied was hard-drinking and easy [HoT being far from those things] I would probably find myself in a similar mindset to yours. Honestly, I would probably rabit from the whole situation. However, since you seem to be proceeding, my only advice is to approach conversations/outings with her with a proper mix of trepidation and obliviousness; that is to say, act as thought you had never heard the things your friends said but keep them in the back of your mind to act as a screen through which you interpret your interactions looking back. That being said, good luck. --- {Board 548} What is there left to say?{åß} |
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Warlock210 Posted 7/14/2006 3:37:12 PM message detail |
Just nail her and get it over with. Gah, you people disgust me. --- "I vote Warlock for president..."~Mac "Warlock, you're my savior."~Ellimist-Tåß |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/15/2006 1:59:55 PM message detail |
So, plans are set for next Sunday. I have her home phone number, her cell number and her address, and I'm ready for some mackin'. Maybe. Probably not. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/19/2006 4:17:51 PM message detail |
Original plans for Sunday got screwed by outside forces, but we might still be able to get together Saturday or Sunday, just not at her place, and not as early. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/21/2006 7:17:32 PM message detail |
****ed all up by some ****er. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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Wacky Posted 7/21/2006 7:30:06 PM message detail |
I'm going to archive this by way of webcomic goodness! --- It's like going into a pet store and asking for a dog, only to be confronted by the guy behind the counter, who tells you they have fish.~~Hawk Eye |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/21/2006 8:13:24 PM message detail |
I don't know if I should be honoured or embarassed. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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ZyIan Bloodstone Posted 7/21/2006 10:15:11 PM message detail |
Honestly, I forgot where I was going with that whole murder idea. --- No one remembers having sex with JJ. It's just something we all assume happens. - Warlock ~Juggling Joker~ |
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Wacky Posted 7/21/2006 10:38:37 PM message detail |
Took me like five minutes to make. http://www.sauronsworld.net/jjoker/new/daily.php?comic=6 --- It's like going into a pet store and asking for a dog, only to be confronted by the guy behind the counter, who tells you they have fish.~~Hawk Eye |
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HandofThrawn Posted 7/22/2006 11:31:06 AM message detail |
Nee's never struck me as the totally evangelical type.... --- {Board 548} What is there left to say?{åß} |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/22/2006 10:02:12 PM message detail |
Yeah, not so much. I mean, I still do the door to door work like every other JW, but I'm far from forceful with it. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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HandofThrawn Posted 7/23/2006 9:23:33 AM message detail |
So do you really have a quota and such? --- {Board 548} What is there left to say?{åß} |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/23/2006 9:35:53 AM message detail |
The only thing that really matters, is how much time we spend in the ministry. Unbaptized and baptized publishers are encouraged to get 10 hours a month. Auxlliary pioneers need to get 50 a month, but you sign up as one for a month, so you can plan ahead and change your schedule to work the time in. Pioneers need to get a total of 840 hours in for a year, an average of 70 hours a month. Pioneers can bank time though, and I've known of some to get 100+ hours in a month. Special pioneers need to get either 100 or 130 a month on average. Can't remember which. It may seem like a lot, but they also get a sort of allowance from the .. church, I guess you'd call it. Although it's more from the JW headquarters of the country than the local church. Special pioneers may also do a bit of work on the side, but not much. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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HandofThrawn Posted 7/23/2006 9:43:59 AM message detail |
Are these the rules of your local church of do they go for all JW? Where is your overall headquarters, anyway? --- {Board 548} What is there left to say?{åß} |
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Neeyahaha Posted 7/23/2006 9:57:42 AM message detail |
The beliefs/rules of JWs are the same all over the world. The main headquarters are in New York, but each country gets more regional direction about stuff from either an HQ in their country, or from one in a nearby country. --- Red Mage: The original pimp {548} |
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AdmiralViscen IV Posted 7/29/2006 11:37:08 PM message detail |
Still needed? --- Help Revive One of GameFAQs' Most Historic Boards: ZSB http://boards.gamefaqs.com/gfaqs/gentopic.php?board=548 {åß} |
