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Neeyohoho
Posted 11/24/2006 7:02:26 PM
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I said coffee or whatever. You could just ask for a drink. Not sure what twenty she's away from you, but neither 20 minutes or 20 miles is too bad. Laura's a 45 min'+ drive. Katy's the same. Not that I see either of them all that much, but I don't mind the drive when I can make it, and going to see friends is something that friends do, so as long as you and Lass 2 are already friends, it's not a big deal.

I was asking about conversational skills, 'cause I know some guys just get tongue tied and quiet when around girls they like. Good to know you have stuff you can talk about with her.
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HandofThrawn
Posted 11/24/2006 7:41:50 PM
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*20 feet, actually.
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Tithenion
Posted 11/24/2006 7:45:27 PM
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<_<
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Neeyohoho
Posted 11/24/2006 8:22:02 PM
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I'm not seeing why her living 20 feet away means there's no point in taking her out for a drink. If anything, I'd think it would be easier, as you could even ask her in person.

Sometimes when giving advice, I feel like I get a little pushy.. if I ever come across that way, I apologize.
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HandofThrawn
Posted 11/24/2006 9:07:24 PM
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Nah, it's helpful, or at least well-intentioned. And I'm the first to admit I need a kick in the arse now and then, especially concerning courtship rituals.
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Neeyohoho
Posted 11/28/2006 12:57:40 PM
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Saw two hot 16 y'olds this past weekend. A blonde with a nice rack Saturday, and an overall cute brunette Sunday. She's actually the younger sister of the girl this topic was first made about. The little sister may have been mentioned earlier.
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Chalae
Posted 11/28/2006 1:03:08 PM
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Is this the topic where you guys talk about hot girls you see? o_o
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Neeyohoho
Posted 11/28/2006 2:25:18 PM
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No.. I guess my last post didn't really have anything to do with the rest of the topic. It's mostly for complaining about girl problems, or to relate how our situation with girls has improved. Some other angst sometimes gets included. It's also mostly just my troubles, with some of HoT's thrown in for variety.
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Deity42
Posted 11/28/2006 2:39:40 PM
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Well if she's twenty feet away from you, instead of "coffee" just ask if she wants to come hang out, watch teh movies, etc.
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HandofThrawn
Posted 11/28/2006 8:05:38 PM
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Saw two hot 16 y'olds this past weekend. A blonde with a nice rack Saturday, and an overall cute brunette Sunday. She's actually the younger sister of the girl this topic was first made about. The little sister may have been mentioned earlier.
Yay paedophilia and angst! A topic made for HoT is there ever as one.
[coughs]

And, yeah, I've technically watched movies, anime, etc w/Lass #2 on a number of occaisons. Just with other company. Still, not an infeasible gap.
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HandofThrawn
Posted 12/2/2006 4:55:08 PM
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........Yeah, I'm gonna bump this topic to promote the contuation of some enclave for the purpose of *****ing.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/8/2006 6:25:03 PM
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Went to Toronto today for a special dental appointment, and ended up at the mall where Laura works to waste some time. I didn't know if she was working or not, but by awesome coincidence, she was there. I very smoothly managed to ask her out for during her break, although that's partly her doing too. She seemed quite eager to meet up. Unfortunately, she ended up having to take her break early, and I didn't get back in time. We kind of arranged to get together during her smaller break, but I had to leave before she got off, or just as she got off. I'm not sure. I waited where I told her I'd be, didn't see, and when I checked back in the store, she wasn't there. So I don't know what happened. Anyway, other than failing to meet up, everything went well. Got quite a number of nice smiles from her.
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HandofThrawn
Posted 12/9/2006 6:43:36 AM
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Meanwhile, in the realm of HoT's Angst, it's 6.30am and I've stayed up all night before catching the bus to Cleveland. Hence, I get three weeks away from courtship matters. Huzzah. Hopefully this topic will still remain up as a my whining depository come January.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/9/2006 3:16:07 PM
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I'll do what I can.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/12/2006 12:37:47 PM
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Chatted to Laura a bit Sunday night. It went well, ending with her sending four or five pictures, although I was only looking for one.

That is all.
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Warlock210
Posted 12/12/2006 1:40:22 PM
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Let's whack to them.

...I mean "see" them. Let's "see" them.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/12/2006 2:37:47 PM
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Yeah, no.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/14/2006 6:06:06 PM
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Have plans to hang out on the 24th. Now to see if they actually work out, of if they manage to get blocked by something, like it seems to happen everytime I try to get together with a girl I like.

She got me to admit that I liked her today, and then she asked why, and now she's telling me why she's not the best person to like... not liking where this is going. I might say more about it, depending how/where it goes.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/14/2006 6:10:46 PM
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**** it all. I should just turn gay.
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meeptroid
Posted 12/14/2006 6:14:07 PM
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XD
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Jimbo009
Posted 12/14/2006 6:14:27 PM
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You'd just end up being in the same position but after guys.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/14/2006 6:22:57 PM
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True enough.. at least women are pretty.

She didn't really tell me any of the terrible reasons. More that she wasn't interested in any guy now 'cause she was still dealing with bad stuff from a previous relationship. I can kinda understand. I was with a girl for 20 months, and it took almost that long to get over the whole situation. Laura was with her last boyfriend for four years, and it seems like it didn't end well. He still likes her apparently.

I know a number of guys say the friend zone is a bad place to be, but I think for now I'd rather be there, than possibly lose Laura completely.

And I really frigging suck at telling whether a girl likes me, or if they're just being friendly.
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Tithenion
Posted 12/14/2006 7:10:42 PM
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I know what you mean. I've at least partly screwed up a friendship because of that. I'm trying to get things patched all up again though.
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HandofThrawn
Posted 12/14/2006 7:18:06 PM
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**** it all. I should just turn gay.
*gay=asexual

Works better than anything else I've gathered. And yeah, I still have yet to determine if a girl has ever been attracted to me or was just being friendly. I thought I've been fairly sure at certain junctures but yet.... Bugger all that. Asexuality/apathy ftw.
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Tithenion
Posted 12/14/2006 7:22:55 PM
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Yeah, then there's another girl, which I'm not interested in anyway, that I sometimes think is flirting with me. Other times though she'll do that with other guys and I think that it's just how she is with everyone.

They're too hard to read. <_<
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ZyIan Bloodstone
Posted 12/14/2006 7:42:37 PM
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Just do what I do and assume they're attracted to you until proven otherwise.
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HandofThrawn
Posted 12/14/2006 7:56:10 PM
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I'll stick with my own preferences, but thanks for the advice.

I've often thought "well, if I could see how Lass n reacts around some other person, I could draw better conclusions!", but alas, I can never pull it off. Corporeality comes back to bite me in the arse yet again.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/17/2006 3:06:28 PM
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The problem with aesexuality is that it means you have to **** yourself. I don't know about you, but there's no way I'm gonna put my dick up my pooper, even if it was physically possible.
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HandofThrawn
Posted 12/17/2006 4:35:37 PM
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......

I have no response to that.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/17/2006 4:50:49 PM
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I win!
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/19/2006 8:28:03 PM
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I've got plans to go visit Laura and Jess this weekend with a friend or two. But honestly, I don't even feel like going now. Sure there's the whole 'visiting friends' thing, but then there's the whole 'stare at a girl, wishing she was yours' thing. And I'm ****ing sick of wanting unobtainable things.

I feel like *****ing about other things, but what's the point.
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ZyIan Bloodstone
Posted 12/19/2006 9:46:57 PM
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Just follow the Patented JJ Cure for Loneliness Guide, and you'll be on your way to a happier existence.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/19/2006 10:11:34 PM
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I'm not losing your contest that easily.
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Jimbo009
Posted 12/19/2006 10:21:58 PM
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Met girl last Friday got along well, did stuff. She has a boyfriend apparently and still wants to see me, this clashes with the Jimbo Moral Code for Great Justice.

Gonna do research and see if her bf is a total ass. I could live with that.
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Matelite
Posted 12/19/2006 10:51:04 PM
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Poooooooor Nee.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/20/2006 2:47:04 PM
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It's ok, PJs, I'll survive.
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Matelite
Posted 12/20/2006 6:07:48 PM
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I'm going to tell you once and only once to stop that. Thx, frend.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/20/2006 7:13:50 PM
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But, don't friends call friends by their names?
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Matelite
Posted 12/20/2006 7:40:27 PM
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NO DONT
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Tithenion
Posted 12/24/2006 1:01:21 PM
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Since this is kinda at a slowdown, I figured I'd post a little something.

WARNING: I have a tendancy to write long posts. Read just the last two or three paragraphs to skip over the background info.

Here's a little (probably more than a little) background. There's this girl that I've known for about 3 years now from church. I had a crush on her for a long time but didn't do anything until early this year. We had gotten to be pretty good friends, though we never saw each other or really talked other than on Sundays.

Well, I tried inviting her to my birthday back in Feb, only to find out that she was going out with somebody at the time and she said she didn't think she should. Well, of course, I hated the fact that I had waited too long.

It wasn't too long though (about two months) before they broke up. I gave her some time, and then I tried asking her out myself. Well, she said she didn't think it'd work out, that there was somebody else she liked. I was pretty crushed, but I told her that it was ok and I hoped we could still be friends (yes, the guy is saying it this time). She said it was cool.

Well, things were kinda awkward still, which is normal, but I didn't wrory about it. Come late June/early July, she told me that she was going to have surgery. She was born with a dislocated hip and it needed to be fixed. I could tell it kinda bothered her so I just gave her a little hug; not even a real hug, more of a arm around her should just for a second.

Also, the week after that, there was a bit of a misunderstanding on my part about something the worship team had told the youth to do. I could have sworn that they told us to come down to the front, but either just nobody else did, or I was mistaken. Anyway, I got down there and nobody else had come (VERY embarrasing), so I just kept on going until I got over to where she was and was going to just stand by her until the worship service was over. I even told her what had happened so she wouldn't get the wrong idea. Whether she didn't hear, didn't believe me, or what, after a couple of minutes, she moved over on the other side of her sister. Then, a little after that, her sister asked me to leave.

Anyway, the next week, I was going to talk to her about it; especially considering it was the week of her surgery. Well, first she apologized for her sister "being mean" to me like that. Then, she told me that she'd rather I not hug her anymroe, it made her uncomfortable. Plus she told me again that she had already told me she wasn't interested. I told her I was sorry, that I was just trying to be nice. I said that I was sorry if she got the wrong idea, but I just wanted to be friends now. Then she said she didn't think we could now.

(barely over limit, continued in next post)

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Tithenion
Posted 12/24/2006 1:01:38 PM
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Fast forward to now. We barely talk; when we do, it's usually in a group of people (which is part of my current problem). She doesn't seem to act weird when we DO talk, but she never tries to start any kind of a conversation with me. I've tried to just forget about it, but I guess I just didn't realise when I took that chance earlier just how much her friendship ment to me. I really miss talking to her like I used to.

I want to people able to talk to her about it just to see if maybe things would be ok now, but there's always this one guy around her. And when he's not, it's another guy. All I want is just a couple of minutes alone to talk to her. I guess I just need to ask to talk with her for a minute, but once I do, I'm not sure exactly what I should say. I guess I'm just afraid of what she's gonna say, how she'll even react to me asking to talk to her alone. My mind just keeps telling me she's gonna get the same idea that she did last time. I just want any ideas of what the absolute best way of doing this is so I don't screw what could be my last chance to fix this.

Really, I guess all of that ended up resulting in what is probably a stupid question. I guess it just helped to type it up, but if you can just comment or give me ANY advice, that'd be great.

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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/26/2006 9:43:54 PM
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As much as it may suck to hear this, you might be better off just to leave her alone for a bit. If you two have a mutual friend (not just an aquaintance, but someone you feel comfortable talking to as well), try to explain the situation to her (I wouldn't trust a guy at your age), and ask her to tell the girl that too. And then just let it rest. After a bit, she might come and talk to you, or maybe you'll see that she doesn't act as awkward around you. If nothing really improves, try to comfort in the fact that you tried, and that she's one of many girls you'll meet. Hell, look at how many girl's I've talked about in this topic, and it's only been around for six months.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 12/31/2006 8:19:55 PM
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Hung out with Jess and Laura last Sunday. It was good.
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Tithenion
Posted 12/31/2006 10:53:44 PM
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Tithenion
Posted 12/31/2006 10:56:15 PM
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you might be better off just to leave her alone for a bit.

I'm guessing you didn't see the part where I said it's been about 5 1/2 months since I started giving things a break? I mean, I've talked with her a little here and there, but like I said, it's always with other people talking with us too. Compared to how it used to be, that's next to nothing.

The last couple of weeks I've tried to talk with her about it, but I just didn't really know how to bring it up.

I'll think about what you said. There's not that many girls there (not my age at least). The only one I know a little better is her older sister. I don't know... had to stay home today because my grandparents came up from NC, so I've got time to think about it before I see her again.

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Neeyahaha
Posted 1/1/2007 5:07:14 PM
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Yeah, sorry. I read the whole thing, and then didn't reply till a few days later.
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Neeyahaha
Posted 1/5/2007 10:40:38 PM
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I should be seeing Jess tomorrow and Sunday for an hour or so both days. I'm looking forward to it. ..Unless the broken heart symbol in her MSN name is about some guy. Then it could suck.
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AdmiralViscen IV
Posted 1/11/2007 10:25:46 PM
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And?

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Neeyahaha
Posted 1/12/2007 4:37:03 PM
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She got the dates wrong. I'll be seeing her tomorrow and Sunday instead.
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HandofThrawn
Posted 1/13/2007 6:16:47 PM
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...And HoT, meanwhile, stays the course of inaction. Rock.
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